In Brief: Masochist and sub, but tops and bottoms in both sex and straight up kink. He's also claustrophobic, has a career in the public eye, don't stick anything not attached to your body in his mouth, and don't fuck with his throat. I have had massive problems with his checklist. If something looks/seems off? It probably is. Just poke hte player.

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#	Activity	Experience Before	Giver/Receiver	Willingness	Notes & Nuances
1	Abrasion	yes	bottom	3
2	Age play	No		no
3	Anal sex	Yes	bottom	5	Five for bottom, 3 for topping.
4	Anal plugs (small)	Yes	bottom	3
5	Anal plugs (large)	Yes	bottom	4
6	Anal plug (public, under clothes)	Yes	bottom	3	Requires discussion about just what public is.
7	Animal roles	No	bottom	no
8	Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders)	yes	bottom	2
9	Aromas	No	bottom	no
10	Asphyxiation	0	bottom	no	This isn't because it's breathplay - it's because anything around my throat or on my face *freaks me out*. With a whole lot of trust and guidlines established, we could probably talk.
11	Auctioned for charity	No	bottom	5	Abso-freaking-lutely.
12	Ball stretching	No	bottom	3
13	Bathroom use control	No	bottom	1	There are scenes it could work in - but it's not a kink on it's own
14	Beastiality	No	bottom	no
15	Beating (soft)	yes	bottom	4
16	Beating (hard)	No	bottom	3
17	Blindfolds	yes	bottom	3
18	Being serviced (sexual)	Yes	bottom	5	.
19	Being bitten	yes	bottom	4	Nowhere visible when reasonably clothed. Unfortunately.
20	Boot worship		bottom	1	I can see it working in a scene but it's not my thing
21	Bondage (light)	yes	bottom	4
22	Bondage (heavy)	yes	bottom	3
23	Bondage (multi-day)	No	bottom	0	It's one of those 'depends on the scene' things. Everything depends on the scene.
24	Bondage (public, under clothing)	yes	bottom	3	Maybe. It's very dependent on specifics.
25	Branding	No	bottom	no	Do you want your ass welded shut?
26	Breast/chest bondage	No	bottom	2	Not my thing - see the bit about scene specifics, though.
27	Breast whipping	No	bottom	2
28	Breath control	No	bottom	O	Again - more about the face and neck than breathing.
29	Brown showers (scat)	No	bottom	no
30	Bruises	Yes		4
31	Cages (locked inside of)	No	bottom	0	I want a 'freaks me the fuck out, in a bad way' option. (I'd still do it for the right dom and scene)
32	Caning	No	bottom	3
33	Castration fantasy	No	bottom	no	I like roleplay and fantasy - but that one just. No.
34	Catheterization	No	bottom	1
35	Cattle prod (electrical toy)	No	bottom	no
36	Cells/Closets (locked inside of)	No	bottom	0	See cages
37	Chains	yes	bottom	3
38	Chamber-pot use	No	bottom	O	Scene, not my thing, etc.
39	Chastity belts (short term)	yes	bottom	3
40	Chastity belts (multi-day)	No	bottom	1	Only if I'm with you all the days
41	Chauffeuring (driving)	No	bottom	no
42	Choking	No	bottom	1	see breathplay
43	Chores (domestic service)	yes	bottom	0
44	Clothespins	yes	bottom	2
45	Cock rings/straps	Yes		3
46	Cock worship	No	bottom	5	and on the other side of the freak out option a 'oh god yes please' would be nice.
47	Collars (worn in private)	No	bottom	0	It's a throat thing.
48	Collars (worn in public)	No	bottom	no
49	Competitions (with other Subs)	No	bottom	2	...I'm competitive
50	Corsets (wearing casually)	No	bottom	0	Scene, not my thing on it's own, etc.
51	Corsets (trained waist reduction)	No	bottom	no
52	Cross-dressing	yes	bottom	0	Scene, not my thing on it's own, etc.
53	Cuffs (leather)	Yes	bottom	5
54	Cuffs (metal)	Yes	bottom	3
55	Cutting	yes	bottom	2	We'd have to do a whole lot of talking
56	Diapers (wearing)	No	bottom	no
57	Diapers (wetting)	No	bottom	no
58	Diapers (soiling)	No	bottom	no
59	Dilation	No	bottom	no	I don't think I have what you need for this
60	Dildoes	yes	bottom	4	No preference for top or bottom.
61	Double penetration	No	bottom	5
62	Electricity	No	bottom	0	Scene, not my thing, etc.
63	Enemas (for cleansing)	yes	bottom	0	AS a scene - not my thing. As prep for one - Yes.
64	Enemas (retention/punishment)	No	bottom	0	Scene dependent, not my - you've got the drill by now
65	Enforced chastity	No	bottom	3	I'm surprisingly fond of this
66	Erotic dance (for audience)	No	bottom	3	I like performing for an audience
67	Examinations (physical)	No	bottom	no
68	Exercise (forced/required)	yes	bottom	2	Not my thing, part of a scene, etc.
69	Exhibitionism (friends)	No	bottom	5
70	Exhibitionism (strangers)	yes	bottom	5	And it makes my job *wicked* fun.
71	Eye contact restrictions	No	bottom	3
72	Face slapping	No	bottom	no	I can not handle my face touched by most people. forcefully and suddenly and there would be a problem
73	Fantasy abandonment	No	bottom	1	This just makes me twitchy. I'd be willing to *try*.
74	Fantasy rape	yes	bottom	3
75	Fantasy gang-rape	No	bottom	0	The reluctance here is the number of people I'd have to *really* trust
76	Fear (being scared)	yes	bottom	5
77	Fisting (anal)	yes	bottom	4
78	Fisting (vaginal)	No	bottom	no
79	Flame play	No	bottom	no	Fire terrifies me in *bad* ways.
80	Following orders	yes	bottom	3
81	Food play (cucumbers, sorbet...)	yes	bottom	2
82	Foot worship	yes	bottom	2	Part of a scene, etc.
83	Forced bedwetting	yes	bottom	no	I can imagine how it would work in a scene, but I can't imagine you getting me over my grossed out response
84	Forced dressing	yes	bottom	3
85	Forced eating	yes	bottom	3
86	Forced homosexuality	yes	bottom	4
87	Forced heterosexuality	No	bottom	no
88	Forced masturbation	yes	bottom	4
89	Forced nudity (private)	yes	bottom	5	Yeah, you try to find a way to force me
90	Forced nudity (around others)	No		no	Yeah, you try to find a way to force me
91	Forced servitude	No	bottom	no
92	Forced smoking	No	bottom	no
93	Full head hoods	No	bottom	no
94	Gags (cloth)	No	bottom	0	REALLY depends on the scene. If you want to freak me out - yes. Otherwise - no. This applies to everything but phallic gags and masks, which are just flat out no.
95	Gags (inflatable)	No	bottom	0
96	Gags (phallic)	No	bottom	no
97	Gags (rubber)	No	bottom	0
98	Gags (tape)	No	bottom	no
99	Gas masks	No	bottom	no
100	Gates of Hell (male)	No		3
101	Genital sex	yes	top	1	eh.
102	Given away to another Dom (temp)	No	bottom	2
103	Given away to another Dom (perm)	No	bottom	no
104	Golden showers	No	bottom	no
105	Gun play	No	bottom	3	Role-play. Sure. Just be prepared for the freak out.
106	Hairbrush spankings	yes	bottom	2
107	Hair pulling	yes	bottom	5	Top or bottom, slight preference for bottom
108	Hand jobs (giving)	No	bottom	4
109	Hand jobs (receiving)	No	bottom	4
110	Harems (serving w/other subs)	No	bottom	0	Maybe.
111	Harnessing (leather)	No	bottom	0
112	Harnessing (rope)	No	bottom	0
113	Having food chosen for you	yes	bottom	2
114	Having clothing chosen for you	yes	bottom	3	You know what I do for a living, right?
115	Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus)	No	bottom	5
116	Head (recv fellatio/cunnilingus)	No		5
117	High heel wearing	No	bottom	0
118	High heel worship	No	bottom	0
119	Homage with tongue (non-sexual)	No	bottom	2
120	Hoods	No	bottom	no
121	Hot oils (on genitals)	yes	bottom	3
122	Hot waxing	yes	bottom	3
123	Housework (doing)	yes	bottom	2
124	Human puppy dog	No	bottom	no
125	Humiliation (private)	No	bottom	3	/td>
126	Humiliation (public)	No	bottom	no
127	Hypnotism	yes	bottom	3
128	Ice cubes	yes	bottom	5
129	Immobilization	yes	bottom	4
130	Infantilism	No	bottom	no
131	Initiation rites	No	bottom	0	Depends on the scene
132	Injections	No	bottom	0	Scene, person, not my thing on it's own.
133	Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage	No	bottom	2
134	Interrogations	No	bottom	3
135	Kidnaping	No	bottom	no
136	Kneeling	yes	bottom	3	I'm weirdly finicky about this
137	Knife play	yes	bottom	3
138	Leather clothing	No	bottom	3	On someone yes, yeah. On me, no.
139	Leather restraints	No	bottom	5
140	Lectures for misbehavior	No	bottom	2	Depends on the scene.
141	Licking (non-sexual)	yes	bottom	2
142	Lingerie (wearing)	No	bottom	no
143	Manacles & Irons	No	bottom	3
144	Manicures (giving)	yes	bottom	2	I will but it probably won't turn me on?
145	Massage (giving)	yes	bottom	5
146	Massage (receiving)	yes	bottom	5
147	Medical scenes	No	bottom	0	It really depends.
148	Modeling for erotic photos	No	bottom	no	It's hot. I can't.
149	Mouth bits	No	bottom	0	All the stuff about gags applies
150	Mummification	0	bottom	no	Cages and cells, only more so
151	Name change (for scene)	yes	bottom	3
152	Name change (legal, permanent)	No	bottom	no
153	Nipple clamps	yes	bottom	2
154	Nipple rings (piercings)	No	bottom	no
155	Nipple play/	yes	bottom	3
156	Nipple weights	No	bottom	n2
157	Oral/anal play (rimming)	No	bottom	no	Only inside a realtionship - which I'm not in with you.
158	Over-the-knee spanking	yes	bottom	3
159	Orgasm denial	No	bottom	no
160	Orgasm control	yes	bottom	5
161	Outdoor scenes	yes	bottom	3
162	Outdoor sex	yes	bottom	3
163	Pain (mild)	yes	bottom	5
164	Pain (medium)	yes	bottom	4
165	Pain (severe)	yes	bottom	3
166	Persona training (in scene)	yes	bottom	3	you know what I do for a living, right?
167	Personality modification (RL)	No	bottom	no
168	Phone sex (serving Dom)	No	bottom	no	I can't. It's a risk thing.
169	Phone sex (serving Dom's friends)	No	bottom	no
170	Phone sex (commercial provider)	No	bottom	no
171	Piercing (temporary, play-pierce)	yes	bottom	3
172	Piercing (permanent)	No	bottom	no
173	Plastic surgery	No	bottom	no	If I get it, it won't be part of a scene
174	Prison scenes	yes	bottom	3
175	Prostitution (public pretense)	No	bottom	no
176	Prostitution (actual)	No	bottom	no
177	Pony slave	No	bottom	no
178	Public exposure	No	bottom	no
179	Punishment Scene	No	bottom	3	Role-play only, thanks.
180	Pussy/cock whipping	No	bottom	no	My pain tolerance just is not that high
181	Pussy worship	No	bottom	no
182	Riding crops	yes		3
183	Riding the	No	bottom	no
184	Rituals	No		2
185	Religious scenes	yes	bottom	3	I love role-play. Who's surprised.
186	Restrictive rules on behavior	yes	bottom	2	I'm not good at straight up d/s
187	Rubber/latex clothing	No	bottom	3	Someone else - maybe. Me, no.
188	Rope body harness	No	bottom	2
189	Saran wrapping	No	bottom	2
190	Scarification	No	bottom	no
191	Scratching - getting	yes	bottom	5
192	Scratching - giving	yes	bottom	5
193	Sensory deprivation	yes	bottom	no	There'd be noc oming back from that freak out.
194	Serving	yes	bottom	0	In a scene yes, but I'm still not great at straight up D/s
195	Serving as art	No	bottom	3
196	Serving as ashtray	No	bottom	no
197	Serving as furniture	No	bottom	no
198	Serving as a maid	No	bottom	no
199	Serving as toilet (urine)	No	bottom	no
200	Serving as toilet (feces)	No	bottom	no
201	Serving as waitress/waiter	No	bottom	no
202	Serving orally (sexual)	yes	bottom	5
203	Serving other doms (supervised)	No	bottom	3
204	Serving other doms (unsupervised)	No	bottom	no	If *I* didn't negotiate with them, I'm not being left alone with them.
205	Sexual deprivation (short term)	yes	bottom	4
206	Sexual deprivation (long term)	No	bottom	0	...what's long term
207	Shaving (body hair)	yes	bottom	2
208	Shaving (genital hair)	yes	bottom	2
209	Shaving (head hair)	No	bottom	no
210	Skinny-dipping	yes	bottom	2
211	Sleep deprivation	yes	bottom	2
212	Sleepsacks	No	bottom	no
213	Slutty clothing (private)	yes	bottom	4
214	Slutty clothing (public)	No	bottom	no
215	Spandex clothing	No	bottom	no
216	Spanking	yes	bottom	4
217	Speech restrictions (when, what)	yes	bottom	3
218	Speculums (Anal)	No	bottom	3
219	Speculums (vaginal)	No	bottom	no
220	Spitting	No	bottom	no
221	Spreader bars	yes	bottom	3
222	Standing in corner	No	bottom	2	Can I giggle?
223	Stocks	No	bottom	2
224	Straight jackets	No	bottom	0
225	Strap-on-dildos (sucking on)	No	bottom	no
226	Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by)	No	bottom	no
227	Strap-on-dildos (wearing)	No	bottom	no
228	Strapping (full body beating)	yes	bottom	4
229	Suspension (upright)	yes	bottom	2
230	Suspension (inverted)	No	bottom	no
231	Suspension (horizontal)	No	bottom	0
232	Supplying new partners for Dom	No	bottom	no
233	Swallowing feces	No	bottom	no
234	Swallowing semen	No	bottom	0
235	Swallowing urine	No	bottom	no
236	Swapping (with one other couple)	No	bottom	no
237	Swinging (multiple couples)	No	bottom	no	I'm not part of a couple. I'll sleep *with* a couple though.
238	Tampon Training (in ass)	No	bottom	no	I'm sorry, what?
239	Tattooing	No	bottom	no
240	Teasing	yes		4
241	TENS Unit (electrical toy)	yes	bottom	2
242	Thumbcuffs (metal)	No	bottom	2
243	Tickling	No	bottom	2	Just be aware it will make me scream and cry along with laugh
244	Triple penetration	no	bottom	2	...This actually kind of scares me.
245	Urethral Sounds (metal rods)	yes	bottom	3
246	Uniforms	yes	bottom	4
247	Including others	No	bottom	4	I'm a big fan of including people in my sex life, yeah.
248	Vaginal dildo	No	bottom	no
249	Verbal humiliation	No	bottom	2	Part of a scene, yes.
250	Vibrator on genitals	yes	bottom	3
251	Violet Wand (electrical toy)	No	bottom	3
252	Voyeurism (watching others)	yes	bottom	2
253	Voyeurism (your Dom w/others)	No	bottom	2
254	Video (watching others)	yes	bottom	3
255	Video (recordings of you)	No		no
256	Water torture	yes	bottom	3
257	Waxing (hair removal)	yes	bottom	2
258	Wearing symbolic jewelry	No	bottom	2
259	Weight gain (forced)	No	bottom	no
260	Weight loss (forced)	No	bottom	no
261	Whipping	yes	bottom	3
262	Wooden paddles	yes	bottom	3
263	Wrestling	yes	bottom	2

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